Find out the things she likes and doesnt like. Plan more dates with her on the things you both like to do. Have you tried your penmanship at poetry for her to let her know how you feel?
Poetry doesn't sound like a good idea right now. But I'm texting her and learning more about her slowly.
Don't try too hard and be yourself while being respectful of her, ask her what she'd like to do or take her on something you'd like to share with her that you enjoy (remaining respectful). She's a person, not a transaction account so unless you're going to continue life being her bank I wouldn't get heavy handed on the gifts, there's nothing wrong with showering each other with presents once you've established that you get along well, just avoid it from being the premise of your relationship if you want something meaningful in the long term. There's no real next move, things will come naturally if you enjoy each other's company.
This is the best one I've heard so far. You're right too, memories are worth more in the long run. Also general update, I asked her out for a third date on Friday. Will upload details later.
Update, we're officially going out now. She's wonderful. So glad I did this. We just talked for hours and we both click. Thanks guys, will post more updates sporadically.
Status update, we are officially boyfriend and girlfriend now. The princess bride totally worked. Cuddled for two hours and then I walked her home. Also kissed her goodbye. Successful thread guys, but now that my story is over, this TA love advice thread is now open to everyone who needs advice. Celebrations all around!
I just knew sitting there thinking "i hope those two Lovebirds find true love" would have great meaning while i watched this. One fist over my heart 7 one fist in the air for You Two I will continue to be a Gentalman with my chivalry thanking my Mom 7 Sisterz for raising me right. You seriously make those of us men proud that hold true to the definition of a real Gentalman in their Relationships 7 Marriages. Know that you are a Blueprint for this 7 future Generations for what you are doing. I thank you for who you are Qdiddy ✊#❤️
Princess Bride is a fantastik movie! A classic for sure. I am 31 and today is my wife and I's 4 year wedding anniversary...boy do I remember wooing ladies back in the day. I still try to woo my wife now and again to spice things up. I think it's all about the surprises to keep the monotony out as much as you can. It's easy once you have kids to just fall into a day-to-day cycle of going through the motions. Relationships and marriages take work from BOTH parties if it is going to work. Feelings will get hurt, tears will be shed, screaming will ensue sometimes (mostly by my wife...I'm a calm person) but through it all just wake up and enjoy everyday you have. Tomorrow isn't guaranteed to anyone. Back to the poetry thing someone had mentioned. I proposed to my wife through a poem and have written her one every year on our anniversary...I know I'm a sappy fella but I enjoy writing poetry. Maybe one day upon request I'll share something so you can all laugh about it heehee And great job QDiddy!!! Keep it up and don't be scared of rejection man it happens to everyone. Just pick yourself up and try again. Sounds like you have a good thing going so take it slow and enjoy yourselves while you're still young. Time/Life catches up fast on you.
Great news men! But still, watch your wallet and back, they are still at risk. And in other news, I recently broke up with my girlfriend so now I can enjoy being single again.
