I cant believe she did this to me . I trusted her more than anyone in the world and still she betrayed me. How will I ever trust here again after this. I never questioned her about anything. Never asked her what she was doing, where she was going, why did she need this or anything at all. And she returned the favor by doing the worst thing she could ever do to me. I agree she was not completely out of reason to do this. I m a little less capable in that department than an average man, but it`s not my fault either. I was born like this. I cant change this now. I`ve tried all sorts of medication. Nothing helped. Still, she IS my wife. Does that not mean you have to compromise a bit too. You simply can not expect your other half to be as good as every one else. I ask you guys, is she right to do it just coz I`m slightly less than capable.?? here`s what happened ........ My memory is really bad compared to an average person. A couple of days ago, she asked me what day it was today. I told her wednesday. Then she asked me the date. I told her Aug 19 and asked back "why was she asking??". When she didnt reply and kept staring me, I hurriedly took out my iPhone to see if I forgot something. There was no entry for Aug 19. Feeling confident, I told her not to waste my time for some stupid jokes. Then only she told me it was her B`day today and she had deleted the reminder from iPhone just to see if I still remember. Guess what, I didnt. I`ve been sleeping on the couch for the last two nights since that day. Dont think there`s any chance of me with her in the same bed for atleast a week or two. I still dont believe this happened to me. I trusted her with my iPhone. MY IPHONE. And this is what she did to me in return
Rofl you got to be kidding right? So now you don't trust each other LOL. Anyway my advice would be to get back at her. Do something similar she did to YOU!
She never forgets. Thats the big problem. And btw, I meant how could I trust her with the most precious thing I have(iPhone) ever again.
No way to win that one. She will remind you 50 years from now that you forgot her Bday... Do something extra special for her - don't add fuel to the fire - she is hurt - hurt does not respond well to antagonism. You have to decrease the hurt. There is a list of things that one should never do with your spouse - forgetting wedding anniversary is bad - forgetting Bday is bad. Telling her she has a big butt is bad. There are lots others that people will come up with - but believe me - it is always best to remember things in 3s... people can do that - you can't remember a list of 10 things - so remember those 3 and you will do OK. It is much easier to remember what TO DO - tell her you love her (and mean it) occasionally - tell her you appreciate what she does (and mean it) - and occasionally get her a small gift or do something extra around the house / work - just because.... 25 years and its worked for me....
Oh - and most important - if this is real - she is testing you for some reason - that is bad - you better find out why - because for some reason she does not think you care.... Too much computer time - not enough her time? Something - but you better take her out, and find out why she hurts... Next thing she plays around with may be someone else's iphone.... No one likes to be ignored, or felt like they are not appreciated... people will find others to tell them they are needed.... Believe me - you don't want to have to post THAT experience...
I used to remember everything. But then iphone came and it spoiled me. There was no need to remember anything anymore. Its not that earlier there werent phones with reminders. iPhone made it really easy, and the fact that it automatically synced it back to my Mac, there was no way I`d be forgetting an anniversary. Guess I`ll have to extra careful now. I hate this. I`m really bad at names and dates.
"Accidentally" drop her phone in the sink or the washer machine while you're "trying" to make it up to her.
Hehe. No need for name calling LBG. I didnt share this here to get her insulted by some random poster. I shared only coz I thought my misery might amuse a few of you
Yeah - so maybe I need you to remember FOUR things rather then the 3 I mentioned - don't forget her name...that is bad....
LOL, I meant names in general. I certainly didnt forget her name ever. That would have been really bad
I'm REALLY bad with names. Like so bad people don't even care anymore if I call them the wrong name. I called my girlfriend so many different names, it's not that I forget, but when I'm in a hurry or just not focusing one of my other friend's name comes out most the time...
If he was actually asking for advice, sure. Care to share your obvious superior knowledge with us, gekkota? Surely you're married, being 50 or so.
