Girlfriend wants to gets married im only 18

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  1. Eli

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    If you love her and you trust in God I recommend getting married right away. God is guiding you, follow him.
     
  2. Fretz

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    I am thinking it's a sign
    That the freckles in our eyes
    Are mirror images and when
    We kiss they're perfectly aligned

    And I have to speculate
    That God himself did make
    Us into corresponding shapes
    Like puzzle pieces from the clay
     
  3. Hambo12

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    thanks Eli so how long have you been with your girlfriend? if you say forever then that will give me hope #
     
  4. pluto6

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    #44 pluto6, Nov 8, 2014
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    OK Hambo - I am out of this discussion.

    As I posted in my first post - people are going to do what they are going to do, and it is very obvious to me that you are looking for reasons to follow your feelings and not much looking for rational reasons. I hope that you have a good life and maybe you will one of the few successful teen marriages, but you will be the exception, not the rule. And Heaven help any children that are born out of this, and have to suffer the consequences of single parenting.
     
  5. psj3809

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    There'll be other girls who are left handed and like their iPhone

    Yes there are soul mates. Its a huge coincidence then that your soul mate you met at 18 and who happens to just live nearby ! So in this huge world you were lucky enough to meet your soulmate just nearby eh !

    In other words she's not your soulmate. She's your first love and you're blinded like many if us were with our first love.

    The worlds a huge place.

    Stay with her then but I don't see why you want to get married.
     
  6. Anotherkellydown

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    Right on, pluto! That's some sound, biblical truth. In fact, there has been a lot of good advice (and some not so good) in this discussion. Take from it what you will, and I wish you the best for the future.
     
  7. italodance

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    Do not do that!!!! Do not be a fool!!!
     
  8. Nullzone

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    I seriously hope you just forgot the sarcasm tags here...
     
  9. psj3809

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    I was thinking the same thing !
     
  10. slamraman

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    good sarcasm doesn't need tagging.
     
  11. DonnyDJ76

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    Was this meant to be sarcastic? Just curious.
     
  12. Andy C83

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    Cause if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
    If you liked it then you should've put a ring on it
    Don't be mad once you see that he want it
    If you liked it then you should've put a ring on it

    Wuh uh oh uh uh oh oh uh oh uh uh oh
    Wuh uh oh uh uh oh oh uh oh uh uh oh
     
  13. Nullzone

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    @Andy_C83: Well, first thing that comes to mind with your lyrics is "slave collar". Not sure our young one here is of that persuasion ;)
    Other than that, like a friend of mine joked when he got married (huge LotR fans, both):
    One Ring to rule them all
    One Ring to find them
    One Ring to bring them all
    and in the darkness bind them

    And yes, they got replicas of the One Ring :)

    In clear words: Don't overrate marriage.
     
  14. Fretz

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    #54 Fretz, Nov 10, 2014
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    Wow dude, is that the first thing you think of when someone sings a Beyonce song?


    Rude.
     
  15. Eli

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    We met when we were in middle school and got married when we turned 18. We've been together for almost 20 years now! God truly is great.
     
  16. DonnyDJ76

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    Don't do it. You'll regret it. Sew your wild oats first. Go to college. If it was meant to be it will happen. 18 and 16 is way too young for a lifetime commitment. Also consider age of consent laws for the time being.
     
  17. bigrand1

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    #57 bigrand1, Nov 10, 2014
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    I gotta agree with that, though I should also tell you the 'fairy-tale' thing IS possible! I met my wife way back in high school. I was a senior and she was a sophomore. We talked about 'forever', and it actually happened! We've been married 31 years now! Went out together for 5 years first though, so we've been together for 36 years total! I realize this situation is an anomaly, but it's true!
    I don't recommend you telling her anything about my post here though, bud. Keep it to yourself-just put it in your back pocket.
    Still, I got married at 22, which is young if you ask me!
    Sometimes, I mess with her when I tell her I screwed up marrying for love and not money and if I could do it over.....
    My advice to you is wait. What's the rush? Life is short! Have fun! Sample different women, and marry into money!!!!
     
  18. JCman7

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    Why the rush to get married? If you are serious why not get engaged and hold off the marriage for a few years. Take it slow this is a life long decision a few years of waiting is not a bad thing and could only help grow your relationship if things are meant to be.
     
  19. bigrand1

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    Yup! Good advice!
     
  20. DonnyDJ76

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    If you think with the right head and true love is there, things will work out, have no despair!
     

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